Why You Over-Explain: A Trauma Therapist’s Guide to Reassurance-Seeking and Shame

If you over-explain in conversations, please know it’s from conditioning and an attachment based nervous system response rooted in shame and the need for safety. Here’s why it happens and how to begin healing!

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Trauma & Healing, Attachment Wounds, Emotional Needs Alyssa Kushner, LCSW Trauma & Healing, Attachment Wounds, Emotional Needs Alyssa Kushner, LCSW

What Is Relational Trauma? Understanding the Invisible Wounds That Impact How You Love, Trust, and Relate

Relational trauma and unmet attachment needs can leave invisible wounds that impact how you connect, trust, and show up in relationships. In this blog, we will explore what relational trauma is, common signs you might be carrying it, and how healing is possible - even if these patterns have felt present for a long time!

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