In-person & online across New York

Therapy Intensives for Women Who Are Done Talking About It and Ready to Actually Heal

Personalized deeper healing through EMDR, somatics, IFS/parts work, mindfulness, and nervous system-based support. For high-achieving, emotionally aware women who are tired of overthinking, over-giving, people-pleasing, and staying stuck in hypervigilance. And, who are ready to heal at the root for actual change, not just intellectualize and talk about it.

Whether you’re craving a deeper immersion around your over giving and lack of boundaries, or you’re ready to process specific relational trauma points that talk therapy hasn’t fully touched yet, intensives give us the time and space to go much further than a 50-minute session.

Now offering 3-4 hour (multiple days) in-person in NYC or online across NY, NJ, DC, and MD.

*Please note that this is not a replacement for therapy or for crisis stabilization

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Is traditional weekly therapy
just not cutting it anymore?

You’re insightful. You’ve done the work. You know the tools. But something still feels stuck - in your body, your patterns, your relationships

You don’t have the time - or capacity - for slow weekly sessions

Weekly therapy can feel like you’re just getting to the heart of it when time is up. You’re juggling work, relationships, and life - you want focused time to actually move the needle. Or you’ve done it already and you want something that will create more change.

You’re seeking deeper, more concentrated healing

You're ready to move through what's keeping you stuck - the anxiety, the people-pleasing, the trauma cycles, the stories you've been telling yourself about who you are. Not just talk about it. Actually shift it. In your body, not just your mind.

Choose the healing approach that fits your needs.

The Over-Giving Recovery Intensive

For high-functioning women exhausted by hypervigilance, over-giving, people-pleasing, and chronic self-abandonment.

This track is designed for women who constantly carry the emotional weight of everyone around them while quietly neglecting themselves. You may replay conversations, second-guess your needs, struggle to rest, or feel stuck in cycles of guilt, resentment, anxiety, and over-responsibility.

Using EMDR, somatic therapy, parts work, attachment-focused therapy, and nervous system regulation tools, this intensive helps you move out of survival mode, rebuild self-trust, and stop abandoning yourself just to keep the peace.

Relational Trauma & EMDR Intensive

For clients ready to process unresolved trauma, attachment wounds, painful memories, and long-standing nervous system patterns at the root.

This track is designed for clients carrying unresolved trauma, distressing memories, attachment wounds, or deeply rooted negative beliefs that continue to impact daily life and relationships.

Using EMDR, somatic therapy, IFS/parts work, and trauma-informed support, we’ll safely process what’s been stuck for years so your nervous system no longer has to live in chronic fight, flight, freeze, or fawn.

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What is the over-giving recovery intensive?

This isn’t just a longer therapy session.
It’s a nervous system-based, trauma-informed reset for the part of you that understands the patterns intellectually - but still overthinks obsessively, struggles to speak up, set boundaries, and feel calm in your body.

The over giving reset is a focused, deep-dive healing experience designed for high-achieving, emotionally aware women who feel stuck in patterns of self-abandonment, anxiety, people-pleasing(or fawning), hypervigilance, exhausting self-criticism, and/or high functioning codependent patterns- even after years of therapy or self-work.

You’re likely the one who always holds it all together - the responsible one, the “mature one,” the fixer. You can sense when something’s off in the room before anyone says a word. You’ve spent so long tending to others that you’ve lost touch with your own needs, your own voice, and what it feels like to truly rest. You may carry guilt, resentment, shame, exhaustion, or a constant feeling of emotional pressure.

This intensive is for the moments when:
You’ve journaled it. Analyzed it. Talked it through. And you still can’t shift it.
You know your patterns - but your body doesn’t feel safe enough to change them.
You try to set boundaries - and spiral into guilt or panic after.
You don’t fully trust yourself - your intuition, your needs, your voice.
Fears of abandonment or disappointing others quietly run the show.
No matter how much insight you gain, your nervous system is still stuck in fight, flight, freeze, or fawn.

In this work, we slow down - and go deeper.
We bring your body into the healing process so insight becomes integration.
So you’re not just understanding your patterns - you’re living differently.

You don’t have to keep holding it all together!
You get to feel grounded, clear, and like yourself again.
And you get to stop holding it all together - alone.

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IS this you?

This work is for you if:

  • You look like you have it all together - but feel constantly overwhelmed inside

  • You spiral after setting a boundary, replaying the conversation in your head for hours

  • You second-guess your feelings, your needs, and your worth

  • You over-function and over-give in every relationship and rarely ask for help

  • You feel guilty when you rest, and anxious when you say no

  • You feel numb, shut down, or “not fully here” when you're overwhelmed

  • You don’t trust that calm or stillness is safe - or that you’re allowed to have it

  • You don’t even know what your needs are because you’ve had to be so attuned to others

  • You’re constantly scanning for others’ needs, moods, or reactions - waiting for the other shoe to drop - and rarely feel fully relaxed and safe

  • You fear abandonment, rejection, and disappointing people and this ends up creating patterns in your relationships

  • You believe you’re too much AND not enough at the same time

  • You’ve internalized shame and hold beliefs like “something is wrong with me,” “’i’m inadequate,” or feelings of unworthiness.

  • You feel anxious and preoccupied in dating or relationships and can’t tell if someone is actually right for you or just familiar

  • You override your gut feelings to keep the peace, then feel resentful or confused after

  • You’ve done the therapy, read the books, listened to the podcasts…and you’re still stuck repeating these patterns

  • You know what the patterns are. You just don’t know how to stop living in them

This isn’t because you’re broken by the way - it’s because your nervous system learned to survive and protect you this way. And now…it’s time to shift, heal, and finally focus on YOU!

What This Work Actually Changes

Nervous System Regulation

Learn to recognize when you’re in fight, flight, freeze, or fawn - and actually move through it. Instead of living braced, reactive, or shut down, you’ll begin to feel steady, grounded, and safe in your own body.

Inner Critic & Shame Healing

Shift the deep beliefs that tell you “I’m too much” or “I’m not enough.” Learn to meet yourself with compassion instead of self-attack - so your nervous system no longer runs on shame.

Rebuilding Self-Trust

Reconnect with your inner voice so you stop second-guessing yourself. Feel clearer about your needs, more confident in your decisions, and less pulled by guilt or external validation.

Healing Hypervigilance

Stop constantly scanning for what others need or how they feel. Learn to slow down, soften, and feel safe inside your own body - not just in other people’s reactions.

Boundaries Without the Backlash

Set boundaries without spiraling into guilt, fear, or shutdown. Learn to hold your ground while staying regulated and connected.

Respond Instead of React

Develop real-time mindfulness tools to ground yourself when you’re triggered. Respond instead of react. Tend to your needs without judgment - and build a more gentle, steady relationship with yourself.

What is the Relational Trauma & EMDR Healing Intensive?

This intensive is for the woman who’s been carrying unresolved trauma… from relational trauma, dysfunctional family/relationship dynamics, or nervous system survival patterns for years - and is finally ready to actually feel different in her body, not just understand the story in her mind.

This work is especially powerful if you:

  • have done talk therapy

  • can name your patterns and relational dynamics

  • know where some of it comes from
    …and yet still feel stuck in anxiety, shutdown, hypervigilance, or survival mode

Instead of spending months circling the same insights, we go deeper - using EMDR, somatic work, and IFS parts work to help your nervous system finally reprocess what it's been holding.

You might even know exactly what trauma you’ve experienced and how it impacts you, but you need to do something different to work through it.

You’ll likely benefit from this work if:

  • You’re tired of 50-minute sessions ending right when you’re finally getting somewhere

  • You feel hyperaware of other people’s moods, reactions, or safety cues.

  • Your body feels “on alert” even when nothing is wrong

  • You can talk about your trauma but don’t feel relief from it

  • You get easily triggered or reactive and don’t always know why

  • You feel anxious, dissociated, or shut down under stress

  • You can’t fully relax into rest, love, or connection

  • You logically know things are “over” but your body doesn’t

  • You grew up with emotionally immature parents, becoming parentified, had a family member or partner with narcissism or mental health/substance use challenges, experienced emotional abuse, or experienced chronic neglect, invalidation, or gaslighting

What Shifts in Trauma Healing:

Trauma Processing & Memory Integration

Work with distressing memories without reliving them. EMDR helps your brain and body reprocess what’s been stuck - so memories lose their charge and stop triggering anxiety, shutdown, or survival responses.

Shift Long Standing Patterns

Address the root of people-pleasing, hyper-independence, functional freeze, chronic anxiety, or attachment wounds - not just the symptoms, but the survival patterns underneath them.

Nervous System Regulation

Learn to safely move out of fight, flight, freeze, or fawn - so your body doesn’t stay on high alert long after the threat is gone. Instead of bracing for impact, you begin to feel steady and grounded.

Rebuild Internal Safety

Trauma healing isn’t just about memories - it’s about helping your system feel calm, stable, and connected again. Safe in your body. Safe in relationships. Safe with yourself.

Reduce Triggers & Reactivity

Instead of avoiding, numbing, or powering through, you’ll build internal safety. Everyday stressors won’t hijack your nervous system - and you’ll respond with more clarity and choice.

Integrate Meaning & Identity

Process the stories you’ve carried about yourself - “I’m not safe,” “I’m too much,” “I’m a burden,” “People will disappoint me” - so they stop shaping how you show up in your relationships and your life.

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Hi, I’m Alyssa - and I created these intensives for the woman who is done intellectually understanding her patterns - and ready to actually shift them.

I’m a licensed therapist specializing in EMDR, somatics, IFS, and relational trauma. I specialize in helping high-functioning women heal relational trauma, chronic hypervigilance, people-pleasing, and nervous system dysregulation. I work with self-aware, high-achieving women who have it altogether on the outside - but feel exhausted and stuck in anxiety, burnout, people-pleasing, attachment wounds, or shame-driven inner critic patterns underneath it all.

These intensives exist for the moments when 50-minute sessions aren’t enough - when something deeper is surfacing, or you’re craving a real shift in how you feel, relate, and move through your life. Many of my clients knew their patterns well… but were still living inside them. That’s why I began creating this format.

I bring a warm, grounded, and individualized approach to every intensive. I’ll teach you tools to regulate your nervous system and guide you through somatic and mindfulness-based work - but I’m also direct, attuned, and honest. This work is active, relational, and deeply experiential. Together, we focus on embodied healing, nervous system safety, and real integration - not just insight. When we work together in this format, you have the time, space, and depth to move through what’s been holding you back - with care, compassion, and pacing that honors your nervous system.

Here is how intensives work:

What is included, structure, cost, and frequently asked questions

1

Pre-Intensive Assessment

Before we go deep, we slow down.

We’ll meet for a 75-90 minute virtual intake to clarify your goals, map your patterns, and identify where to focus so your intensive feels intentional - not overwhelming. If you're new to EMDR, somatic healing or parts work - don't worry. I'll walk you through everything so you feel informed and prepared before we begin.

Together, we’ll identify the themes, memories, or relational dynamics you want to shift so you arrive feeling grounded and prepared.

You’ll also receive a customized workbook with reflection prompts and clinical assessments designed to help you clarify what you need support with - so we’re not starting from scratch.

2

Intensive
Sessions

This is where the real shift happens.

In our extended sessions, we may use EMDR, somatics, IFS parts work, mindfulness, self-compassion practices, and nervous system tools - all tailored to your goals and paced with care.

Before we go into deeper trauma processing, I’ll make sure you understand your nervous system patterns and feel equipped with tools to stay regulated and supported throughout.

If we’re working on people-pleasing, self-trust, attachment wounds, or codependency, we’ll also explore the emotions, needs, and protective patterns that have shaped how you show up - so you can reconnect with the authentic you beneath them.

3

Post-Intensive Follow-Up

After the intensive, we’ll meet for a 50-minute integration session to process what surfaced, anchor insights, and map your next steps.

You’ll receive a personalized post-intensive workbook with grounding tools, nervous system education, reflection prompts, and integration practices so you can continue the work with clarity and support.

Depending on your goals, we may discuss additional intensives, longer sessions, or ongoing therapy to deepen and sustain the shift.

Three to five hours is rarely enough to fully resolve long-standing trauma patterns - but it can often to begin meaningful movement.

For many clients, this first intensive opens the door to deeper processing. Depending on your goals and history, we may recommend additional intensives (often 10–20 total hours) to fully integrate and stabilize the work.

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Everything you need to go deep - and not go through it alone.

Specialized, focused treatment grounded in EMDR, nervous system, IFS/parts and somatic work


A structured pre-intensive assessment and customized nervous system map


Extended time for deeper, uninterrupted healing work


A personalized integration plan to support lasting change

Your Options

Choose Your Intensive Investment

Most clients experience the most meaningful movement in 10-20 total hours of focused work (can add more later if needed)

Let’s connect and see if this is right for you!

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