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What Is a Window of Tolerance (And How to Find Yours)
Trauma Therapy Alyssa Kushner, LCSW 12/3/25 Trauma Therapy Alyssa Kushner, LCSW 12/3/25

What Is a Window of Tolerance (And How to Find Yours)

Your nervous system has a natural zone where you can handle stress without overwhelm - it’s called your window of tolerance. In this blog, I also share how trauma impacts it and become more aware of yours.

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In addition to physical tiredness, so often it’s also emotional!⁣
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The thing about anxiety and always monitoring other people, anticipating their needs, and waiting for the other shoe to drop (aka hypervigilance) is that you’re chronical If you have been told to sit with stillness, rest more, and enjoy the peace - but you feel deeply anxious, restless or uncomfortable with it, this post and blog is for you!!⁣
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Swipe for reasons why calm can ironically create more anxiety and peace f
Sometimes the way we learned to cope growing up gets mislabeled as “dramatic,” “oversensitive,” or “too much.” Or we learn through conditioning that our needs should be minimized and our boundaries will be over-rid
Anxious and avoidant attachment often get reduced to stereotypes, but the reality is muchhhh more complex than what social media usually shows! ⁣
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For anxious attachment, it can look like managing connection through overthinking, reassurance-seeking
Relational and relationship healing isn’t just “communicating better.”⁣
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It’s unlearning the survival strategies we built:⁣
people-pleasing, shrinking, scanning for threat, chasing reassurance, managing other people’s e If you grew up people-pleasing, over-functioning, or tracking everyone else’s emotions, self-trust didn’t disappear.⁣
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It got quiet or lost in fear.⁣
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You learned early that being “wrong,” disappointing someone, or taking up

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