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7 Tips For Setting And Maintaining Healthy Boundaries
Self Trust & Boundaries Alyssa Kushner, LCSW 3/11/19 Self Trust & Boundaries Alyssa Kushner, LCSW 3/11/19

7 Tips For Setting And Maintaining Healthy Boundaries

Setting boundaries can feel overwhelming and guilt inducing, especially if you are used to putting others first! In this blog, you’ll learn about what boundaries are and 7 practical tips to help you set, communicate, and maintain healthier boundaries - without guilt or second guessing.

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These aren’t tools I just recommend -  they’re ones I use in session, in my support groups with women, and honestly on myself before a hard conversation or when my own nervous system is running the show.⁣
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The extended exhale before I re
Taking up space feels dangerous when your nervous system was taught that shrinking kept you safe.⁣
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And not even because of a confidence problem. It really is a nervous system and adaptive attachment pattern that made complete sense when you learned
People-pleasing guilt doesn’t just sound like⁣
“I feel guilty.”⁣
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Sometimes it sounds like:⁣
“What if they’re mad at me?”⁣
 “I should’ve just said yes.”⁣
 “Now I need to fix this.”⁣

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