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How to Spot Truly Toxic Behavior (And What to Do About It)
Trauma Therapy, Relationships & Boundaries, Emotionally Immature & Toxic Behavior Alyssa Kushner, LCSW 8/14/25 Trauma Therapy, Relationships & Boundaries, Emotionally Immature & Toxic Behavior Alyssa Kushner, LCSW 8/14/25

How to Spot Truly Toxic Behavior (And What to Do About It)

If you’ve ever felt confused, guilty, or emotionally drained around someone close to you - this blog breaks down the real signs of toxic behavior.

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Healing After Gaslighting & Chronic Invalidation: Rebuilding Self-Trust When Your Reality Was Dismissed or Minimized
Trauma Healing & Relational Wounds Alyssa Kushner, LCSW 6/6/25 Trauma Healing & Relational Wounds Alyssa Kushner, LCSW 6/6/25

Healing After Gaslighting & Chronic Invalidation: Rebuilding Self-Trust When Your Reality Was Dismissed or Minimized

If you’ve ever been told you’re “too sensitive” or found yourself doubting your own emotions and memories, you may be healing from gaslighting or chronic invalidation. Here’s how to rebuild self-trust and reconnect with what’s real.

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Recovery from people-pleasing isn’t a a quick and easy glow-up.⁣
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It’s a dismantling your old beliefs and patterns and then, slowly, a rebuilding - on your own terms.⁣
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If you’re in the messy middle and feeling lots of discomfort&
If you grew up in an environment where love felt conditional - where you had to perform, achieve, or take care of others to feel wanted - your nervous system learned a very specific lesson:⁣
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Your value is in what you do. Not who you are.⁣
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So you
I don’t know what I need” is one of the most common things I hear from my clients. ⁣
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It’s not that you don’t actually have needs btw. It’s that you’ve spent so long making sure everyone else’s needs were me

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