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Anxiety & Overwhelm Therapy
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Signs of a One-Sided Relationship: When You’re Always the One Giving
Relationships, Codependency & People-Pleasing Alyssa Kushner, LCSW 2/4/26 Relationships, Codependency & People-Pleasing Alyssa Kushner, LCSW 2/4/26

Signs of a One-Sided Relationship: When You’re Always the One Giving

Always feeling like you’re the one giving more in relationships? Learn the signs of a one-sided relationship, what is just over-giving vs true codependency, and steps to take to create healthier, more balanced connections.

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Why the Holidays Feel So Stressful (Especially for People-Pleasers and Empaths)
Anxiety & Emotional Health, Relationships & Boundaries Alyssa Kushner, LCSW 10/30/25 Anxiety & Emotional Health, Relationships & Boundaries Alyssa Kushner, LCSW 10/30/25

Why the Holidays Feel So Stressful (Especially for People-Pleasers and Empaths)

The holidays often bring both joy and stress. Here’s why they can feel so emotionally charged- and how to navigate them with awareness, boundaries, and self-compassion.

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Happy v day - besides romantic connections I think this time is for friendships & self love too. ⁣
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The thing is self-love isn’t just bubble baths & spa days.⁣
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Sometimes it’s…⁣
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✨holding the boundary⁣
✨having the uncomf
Disappointing someone shouldn’t feel like a threat to your safety…⁣
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…but for a lot of people, it does.⁣
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Not because you’re dramatic. Not because you’re “too sensitive.”⁣
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But because your nervous syste
Sometimes self-care isn’t another routine to optimize or doing more to feel good! ⁣
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It’s often fewer plans. Fewer explanations. Less managing.⁣
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And letting your nervous system finally exhale.⁣
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That’s what I’ll be focusin
Codependency is a relational dynamic that looks like being really good at adjusting, anticipating, smoothing things over - and quietly disappearing in the process.⁣
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It’s a lot of self abandonment and self neglect, overthinking, and constantly
You don’t motivate yourself with kindness - you pressure yourself into functioning.⁣
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You rush to fix discomfort.⁣
You downplay your needs.⁣
You confuse rest with weakness.⁣
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Self-compassion isn’t indulgent or giving up!! ⁣
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It’s

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