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Why We Struggle to Be Alone (Even When We Crave Peace)
Anxiety & Emotional Health, Nervous System & Somatic Healing Alyssa Kushner, LCSW 7/24/25 Anxiety & Emotional Health, Nervous System & Somatic Healing Alyssa Kushner, LCSW 7/24/25

Why We Struggle to Be Alone (Even When We Crave Peace)

Struggling to enjoy alone time without guilt or anxiety? It might be rooted in trauma, stress, fears, or nervous system dysregulation. Learn why - and how to start reconnecting with yourself from a trauma-informed lens!

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Recovery from people-pleasing isn’t a a quick and easy glow-up.⁣
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It’s a dismantling your old beliefs and patterns and then, slowly, a rebuilding - on your own terms.⁣
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If you’re in the messy middle and feeling lots of discomfort&
If you grew up in an environment where love felt conditional - where you had to perform, achieve, or take care of others to feel wanted - your nervous system learned a very specific lesson:⁣
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Your value is in what you do. Not who you are.⁣
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So you
I don’t know what I need” is one of the most common things I hear from my clients. ⁣
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It’s not that you don’t actually have needs btw. It’s that you’ve spent so long making sure everyone else’s needs were me

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