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Trauma Therapy
Anxiety & Overwhelm Therapy
People Pleasing, Codependency, & Perfectionism Therapy
Depression & Burn Out Therapy
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Individual Therapy
Women's Support Group
EMDR Intensives
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Healing After Gaslighting & Chronic Invalidation: Rebuilding Self-Trust When Your Reality Was Dismissed or Minimized
Trauma Healing & Relational Wounds Alyssa Kushner, LCSW 6/6/25 Trauma Healing & Relational Wounds Alyssa Kushner, LCSW 6/6/25

Healing After Gaslighting & Chronic Invalidation: Rebuilding Self-Trust When Your Reality Was Dismissed or Minimized

If you’ve ever been told you’re “too sensitive” or found yourself doubting your own emotions and memories, you may be healing from gaslighting or chronic invalidation. Here’s how to rebuild self-trust and reconnect with what’s real.

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If your worth is measured by your productivity…⁣
Then rest will always feel wrong, lazy, or Indulgent. Or like you’re falling behind.⁣
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But the truth?⁣
✨ Rest isn’t failure.⁣
✨ Rest isn’t something you have to earn.⁣
✨ Rest Building self-trust isn’t about one big breakthrough over night! it’s about small, consistent choices that show your nervous system: “I’ve got me.”⁣
✨ Pausing to check in before saying yes⁣
✨ Validating your emotions and
So excited to start offering therapy intensives this summer. I’ve seen firsthand how powerful intensives can be! ⁣
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Sometimes you need more than 50 minutes -  especially when you’re ready to stop looping the same patterns, get to the roo Healing your attachment style isn’t just about finding the right partner and communicating perfectly - it’s about learning how to feel, name, and express your emotions in real time. ⁣It’s about learning what attachment wounds get tr ✨ June Intentions ✨⁣
Not big goals or resolutions, but energy for the month! ⁣
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🌿 Pause before fixing⁣
🌿 Rest without guilt⁣
🌿 Let go of the grip on constant productivity⁣
🌿 Reconnect with what actually feels good - in your body, emotions, mind
Mental health isn’t another to-do list. And healing it shouldn’t be another project.⁣
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If you’ve ever felt like you’re “not doing enough” in your healing… pause and ask:⁣
- What am I trying to prove?⁣
- Who Not all trauma looks loud. Sometimes it looks like smiling when you’re deeply uncomfortable. Or feeling anxious when things are finally calm. Or over-explaining yourself just to feel safe in a conversation.⁣
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If you’ve ever thought:⁣
&ld C-PTSD isn’t “just trauma.”⁣
It’s what happens when you’ve had to stay in survival mode for too long. When you’ve felt unsafe, unseen, or on edge in your own body or relationships — not because of one event, Always more peaceful on top of a mountain!⁣
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A reminder that even if you can’t get there - you can close your eyes and visualize this space - noticing the colors, the sights, the sounds, the textures, the smells, etc. For a moment you can let

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