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The Subtle Signs You’re Emotionally Over-Giving (And Starting To Feel Burnt Out)
People Pleasing, Anxiety & Emotional Health Alyssa Kushner, LCSW 2/23/26 People Pleasing, Anxiety & Emotional Health Alyssa Kushner, LCSW 2/23/26

The Subtle Signs You’re Emotionally Over-Giving (And Starting To Feel Burnt Out)

You don’t think of yourself as a people pleaser. But you’re tired. Emotionally drained. Quietly resentful. Here are the subtle signs you may be emotionally over-giving - and what to do about it.

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How to Stop Self-Abandoning in Relationships
Relationships & Attachment Alyssa Kushner, LCSW 11/19/25 Relationships & Attachment Alyssa Kushner, LCSW 11/19/25

How to Stop Self-Abandoning in Relationships

Self-abandonment is what happens when you disconnect from your needs, feelings, or boundaries to keep the peace in your relationships. In this blog, I break down what self-abandonment looks like, why it happens, and how to start staying connected to yourself again.

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Why You Always Feel Like You’re ‘Too Much’ (And Not Enough): Healing the Root of People-Pleasing & Anxiety
Codependency & People-Pleasing Alyssa Kushner, LCSW 4/27/25 Codependency & People-Pleasing Alyssa Kushner, LCSW 4/27/25

Why You Always Feel Like You’re ‘Too Much’ (And Not Enough): Healing the Root of People-Pleasing & Anxiety

Ever feel like you’re always either “too much” or “not enough”? Learn why people-pleasing, perfectionism, and anxious attachment can leave you stuck - and how to start healing from the inside out.

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These aren’t tools I just recommend -  they’re ones I use in session, in my support groups with women, and honestly on myself before a hard conversation or when my own nervous system is running the show.⁣
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The extended exhale before I re
Taking up space feels dangerous when your nervous system was taught that shrinking kept you safe.⁣
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And not even because of a confidence problem. It really is a nervous system and adaptive attachment pattern that made complete sense when you learned
People-pleasing guilt doesn’t just sound like⁣
“I feel guilty.”⁣
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Sometimes it sounds like:⁣
“What if they’re mad at me?”⁣
 “I should’ve just said yes.”⁣
 “Now I need to fix this.”⁣

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