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Empathy vs. Over-Responsibility: Why Caring About People Shouldn't Cost You Yourself
Relationships & Boundaries Alyssa Kushner, LCSW 6/11/26 Relationships & Boundaries Alyssa Kushner, LCSW 6/11/26

Empathy vs. Over-Responsibility: Why Caring About People Shouldn't Cost You Yourself

Empathy says: I see you, I'm here, I get it. Over-responsibility says: this is mine to fix. The difference is subtle - and for the people who've been the "thoughtful one" in their relationships for decades, it's the difference between sustainable care and chronic exhaustion.

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Why You Feel Responsible for Everyone Else's Feelings (And How to Stop)
People-Pleasing & Codependency Alyssa Kushner, LCSW 3/6/26 People-Pleasing & Codependency Alyssa Kushner, LCSW 3/6/26

Why You Feel Responsible for Everyone Else's Feelings (And How to Stop)

If you over-function, people-please, and carry everyone's emotions and don’t know why or how to stop - this is why. I explain what hyper-responsibility is, why you do it, and how to stop.

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The Subtle Signs You’re Emotionally Over-Giving (And Starting To Feel Burnt Out)
People Pleasing, Anxiety & Emotional Health Alyssa Kushner, LCSW 2/23/26 People Pleasing, Anxiety & Emotional Health Alyssa Kushner, LCSW 2/23/26

The Subtle Signs You’re Emotionally Over-Giving (And Starting To Feel Burnt Out)

You don’t think of yourself as a people pleaser. But you’re tired. Emotionally drained. Quietly resentful. Here are the subtle signs you may be emotionally over-giving - and what to do about it.

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Signs of a One-Sided Relationship: When You’re Always the One Giving
Relationships, Codependency & People-Pleasing Alyssa Kushner, LCSW 2/4/26 Relationships, Codependency & People-Pleasing Alyssa Kushner, LCSW 2/4/26

Signs of a One-Sided Relationship: When You’re Always the One Giving

Always feeling like you’re the one giving more in relationships? Learn the signs of a one-sided relationship, what is just over-giving vs true codependency, and steps to take to create healthier, more balanced connections.

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“I don’t know what I need” is genuinely one of the most common things I hear from my clients and group members.⁣
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And that’s because if you’ve been conditioned to tune into everyone else’s needs besides your own,
Why do we make letting go of carrying everyone else’s emotions so complicated?

When truly, if you want to stop feeling responsible for every mood in the room, you have to start with some big reminders.

Here’s what I come back to:

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