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How to Stop Self-Abandoning in Relationships
Relationships & Attachment Alyssa Kushner, LCSW 11/19/25 Relationships & Attachment Alyssa Kushner, LCSW 11/19/25

How to Stop Self-Abandoning in Relationships

Self-abandonment is what happens when you disconnect from your needs, feelings, or boundaries to keep the peace in your relationships. In this blog, I break down what self-abandonment looks like, why it happens, and how to start staying connected to yourself again.

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High-functioning anxiety doesn’t always show up as constant panic.⁣
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A lot of the time it looks like competence, productivity, and being the one everyone relies on.⁣
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And perfectionism quietly fuels to it too! The combo is dangerously: ⁣
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Yo Happy New Year!!!!⁣
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After my own reflection, this year I’m going to call in gentleness. ⁣
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Softness with myself and how I go about my life.⁣
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More self care time that’s about activity, fun, joy and play rather than improvement, produc Gotta do it -⁣
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2026 ins and outs!⁣
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What are yours? Which resonate?⁣
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Happy New Year’s Eve! #2026  #2025 #2026insandouts
The trip of a lifetime!⁣!!
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And yes I do have a fiancé, but I don’t show him, fam, and friends on my therapy page 🤣⁣
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England was magical and I feel deep gratitude and thankfulness. ⁣
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I appreciate my relationship, my family, my frie Holiday reminders, scripts for boundaries, and ways to meet your needs too during this time! Happy holidays everyone ✨ #holidayboundaries #boundaries #therapistsofig If you’re exhausted, resentful, or quietly overwhelmed -⁣
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You might not be “bad at boundaries.”⁣
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You might just be over-functioning in the name of love, safety, connection or belonging.⁣
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You probably learned doing more was the
How often do you leave a convo and feel you gave more then you received?⁣
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Or relationships that feel one sided.⁣
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It this is often for you, here are some signs you’re carrying more than your share of the emotional labor!⁣
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#therapistsoninst Trusting yourself isn’t lost - it’s just buried under years of survival mode. ⁣
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Your intuition didn’t disappear or go away it’s waiting for space, safety, and softness to be heard again!⁣
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#intuition #selftrust #therapistso

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