Why You Over-Explain: A Trauma Therapist’s Guide to Reassurance-Seeking and Shame

If you over-explain in conversations, please know it’s from conditioning and an attachment based nervous system response rooted in shame and the need for safety. Here’s why it happens and how to begin healing!

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Why You're Addicted to Stress, Chaos, and Drama - and How to Heal

If stillness makes you uneasy, if urgency feels safer than rest, or if you’re always bracing for the next crisis - this blog unpacks how trauma can create an addiction to stress and chaos, and how to begin healing. You’re not “too much” - you’re just in survival mode.

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