Why Saying No Makes You Feel Guilty - Even When You’ve Done Nothing Wrong

Why does saying “no” make you feel selfish or wrong - even when you know you’re allowed to have needs? Here's how trauma wires guilt into your nervous system, and how to start unlearning the guilt with compassion.

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Signs You Have An Anxious Attachment Style In Relationships

Do you find yourself anxious, seeking reassurance in your relationships, struggling to be alone, and fearing abandonment? These may be signs you have an anxious attachment style. In this blog, we’ll explore what anxious attachment style really looks like, common signs of it, and how understanding your attachment style can help you create healthier, more secure relationship - which can be done!

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Trauma & Healing, Attachment Wounds, Emotional Needs Alyssa Kushner, LCSW Trauma & Healing, Attachment Wounds, Emotional Needs Alyssa Kushner, LCSW

What Is Relational Trauma? Understanding the Invisible Wounds That Impact How You Love, Trust, and Relate

Relational trauma and unmet attachment needs can leave invisible wounds that impact how you connect, trust, and show up in relationships. In this blog, we will explore what relational trauma is, common signs you might be carrying it, and how healing is possible - even if these patterns have felt present for a long time!

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